A Filipino domestic worker says that after working for the same employer in Hong Kong for 15 years, she is becoming fed up with the woman’s weird habits and the mess other family members make in their apartment.
Becca, 49, said she could not understand why her employer takes her meals at the coffee table instead of the dining table, and why she sleeps in the living room instead of her bedroom, reports sunwebhk.com, a news portal for Filipinos in Hong Kong.
The woman would take a nap in the afternoon, and then in the evening, she would suddenly bake cookies, so Becca has to stay up late to clean the kitchen.
Becca is also responsible for caring for her boss’s two children, now in their early 20s, who bring their boyfriends to the apartment, where they have meals together. Becca said that because of this, her workload had increased the point that she has thought about quitting.
Becca’s employer said her two children would soon leave and have their own places, which will lighten the maid’s workload, as she will only need to serve her employer and her husband.
Becca has decided to stay with her current employer and endure the workload as she is the breadwinner for her family in the Philippines. She said that because her husband has no permanent job, she is the one funding her children’s college education.
Jeanette Martinez tama ka sis ako first amo ko pinagtyagaan ko hangang kya ko pero yong napagod ako ksi kulang nlng subuan mo nag break ako saknila 3yrs and 5months ako hnd mahalaga long service skin importante tratuhin tyo ng tama oo binabayaran nila tyo pero dapat may consederasyon sila khit konti tapos nag hired sila nag bago nag 3months lng nag break din yon din problema nya same skin …..so ngayon pinabalik ako at sa awa ng dios nag bago ugali nya pag balik ko ….
Urmeneta Vina kulang pa! Kaya nga maraming amo biglang mgbago sa khit tagal mong serbisyo knila para ikw aalus at maiwasan nila LS.Sana may batas din n mgprotekta sa gnitong kaso kc unfair ba. Katulad ko mhigit 16 yrs sa amo , sa ngaUn nag iba ugali ni Kulasa…kunting bagay punapalaki niya para lng kami mgkadagotan.
Walanghiya eh, empty box ng chocolate?????,pag ako yan sasabihan ko ng bibilhan ko na lng ng 1 box ng ferrero pero akin chocolate, kanya ung box????????????
Joyce Lyn Ines Yabes 11mahirap i compare sarili sa iba kc ibat iba tau ng katawan at kakayahan, agree ako ky Urmanete vina aanhin mo Ls kung mapupunta lang yan sa hospital bills, ang food supplements ay nakakatulong pero ang ktawan ay kailangan din ng sapat na pahinga dhil kung dmo man nararamdaman pa ngaun sa pagtanda mo aanahin mo yan. Nagiging malakas tau dhil sa determination ng isip mind over body kumbaga pero in d end lahat ng pang aabuso natin sa ating katawan babalik yan.buti sna kung forever ka sa amo at sa pagtanda mo cla mag sisilbi sau . we trust God na hindi tau pbabayaan, hindi cnabi ng Dios na tiisin mo khit dmo kaya kunti gamitin natin utak na mag disisyon ng tama pra sa ating sarili..just saying.
agoy ganyan tlaga ako nga tuwing business trip ng amo ko laging hahabilinan lahat ng damit nila ilabas sa bed ipaplantsa uli ipavideo pa lagi lagi ganyan kako amo yes lang maraming worse sa buhay OFW ???? kailangan daw talaga maglakad YOU HAVE TO WALK
lahat ng gnagawa mo Mali s paningin nila! sila lang tama.bkit may mga amo n ganyan…
ok Lang sana kung mpagod sa trabaho… wag lang araw araw mayreklamo sa gawa mo. bakit Hindi sila mrunong mkuntinto.. dahil b sa mayaman cla! lahat ng
palit na lng tayo hehehe isa lng alaga ko lagi sila wala pero kailangan mo tiiisin kaartehan nilang pareho at kasungitan ng popoh at babaeng amo
Most chinese people are not easy to work with. They make things complicated and doesnt want a harmonious relationship with their hoousemate.
Sabayan mo tulog para may laban sa puyat ganyan ginagawa ko dati ko amo be wise kunwari dala basahan para pag tinawag my alibi ka kung bigla,sya,magising 😉 ang hirap kung ikaw pasarap sa tulog :* baka pack your things 🙂 pero kung work ka,at matagal na Hk mababaw tulog mo
That’s my problem too always stay up 6am-12mn,sometimes I want to quite my job!!how long should the helper work for her boss because at this points my body become and always feel exhausted.plz Hongkong govn do some action about this kind unhuman employer.
Urmeneta Vina depende yun kung marunong kang magmanage ng time mo sa tagal ko na sa knila naging madali na ang lahat, inilulutoan ko nga 2 anak ng amoko na nasa ibang house na dadalhin ko pa don araw araw yan at syempre diko pinapabayaan ang kalusugan ko despite of my workloads…di ako nawawalan ng mga food supplements tulog ko nga 1-6 eh pero kumakapit ako kay Lord every time!
Aanhin mo nmn ang pera sa LS mo kung patay nmn katawan mo…tama lng ang mkukuha mo na LS pampagamot o pampa hospital.. ✌✌✌????????
Same my situation…i need to wait them until they come back home…wla rin ako.alaga pero dinaig ko ang sampu ang alaga…ang sir galing ofice uwi ng 6 ng gabi…uupo mna after 10pm ng gabi tska mg exercise need to wait until 11.30..pra labhan ang basahan nyang damit na sinosoot png gym…same like theirs no tommorow…stress ako arawaraw plus pa ang matanda lagi nang iinsulto…debale over work ako basta wag lng maingay….ndi ako napapagod sa trabaho kundi sa png iinsulto na gnwa ng matanda emotionally abused……..????????????????????
Hahaha cra ulo talaga
Kabayan sa tagal mong ng work dyan(15 yrs.) sana noon pa mga 6 to 8 years hanap kna ibang amo kesya mgkasakit ka dyan.mas lalong problema pa kalusugan mo
Ganyan ang mga among walang to wala sa sarili.bintang agad, di muna siguradohin kung saan napunta ung hinahanap ña.shame on you among mapagbintang.tsk tsk,u are worthless even u are rich.discipline yourself.palibhasa singkit
Hahhaha parang yung friend ko,kaloka
Thats the sad part of being a helper..always wrongfully accused…employers are always suspicious of everything
. Better not hire a helper if u dont know how to trust… Seldom u can find an employer who gives full trust with her helper.
But good for her that her employer have the guts to say sorry… Some dont even do it after they wrongfully accused their helper
Tiis lng kabayan… ganyan iba chinese my pgka sadista… kung di kya mghanap… marami amo kysa nman mgkasakit ka…