In highlighting the contribution of Hong Kong’s foreign domestic workers to the local economy, a popular HK columnist explained how the generosity of employers can encourage maids to provide a higher level of service.
The Apple Daily columnist, who goes by the pen name “Jor Ding-san”, on June 12 recounted how his friend, a semi-retired journalist and public relations consultant, encountered her former domestic helper and a young man, whom she did not recognize, in front of her apartment in Sha Tin in the New Territories.
The former helper, Karen, 53, was, in fact, accompanied by her son. They, together with Karen’s husband, three other children and a grandson, had traveled from the Philippines to Hong Kong for sight-seeing.
Karen explained that she wanted to visit with her former employer to thank her for treating her as a family member during her employment.
Jor said his journalist friend had earned the gratitude of Karen, and other helpers over the years, by giving them generous “red packets”, gifts of cash that are traditionally given at festivals and special occasions. He said she also shared expensive food with them and sponsored visits to Hong Kong Disneyland.
Jor further recalled how he once discovered his Filipino maid had taken some mooncakes without asking, but instead of being angry with her, he gave her some more to share with her friends. His neighbor criticized him for being “too generous” with the maids, but he stressed that this was the wrong perspective.
He said employers who are generous with their domestic workers will encourage better work performance from them and build more productive relationships in the long run.
Commom sense…
It’s true because mostly employer are stingy
This is true.
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Absolutely correct ,i tgankscto God he gave me a good /generous host family 2ndly thanks to my boss thy treaten me as a family member
I do agree…my employer are very kind person that’s make me think twice for doing bad things.i learn a lot from them and tried my self be a better person.soo now ..instead of just having fun with a friend during my off day i tried to upgrade my self by going back to school and take some courses.Thankyou soo much to my employer.may God bless your family always.
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Yes ofcoarse…treat helpers good and they will definitely treat you even better
I agree with Sir Jor, being a domestic workers in Hong Kong, i respect their opinions, as a helper we’ll all do our best to fulfill our jobs.
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true,treat your maid and will serve you unconditional.like my employer in singapore for 17 years we keep intouch
We seldomly can find generous Chinese employers here in HK… Even red colored calendar activities which are not for us , they will not allow us to go out a supposed to be a simple kind of generosity to be given to helpers.
What you give is what you also recieve… As simple as that….
Once never be forgotten.Everyone will dreamed to get the same employer as her.
Yes very true
correct
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It is true and agree …
We all ever wanted is they will give us a little consideration … that we are not perfect..
And we also have a feelings.
Thats true
It’s common sense..how can a maid work properly if d boss always find mistakes and dont even feed and treat her justly
Yes it’s true, coz I had an experienced,,
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What you sow is…what you reap very simple..��.. GOD bless those employers with a good hearth for their servants/helper..
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true indeed
But of course! Love begets love. Respect begets respect. What you do to others, the same will come back to you and much much more!
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Tama…vice versa naman yan…kapag mabait ang amo of course papalitan mo rin ito ng kabaitan…pero kapag maldita ang amo affected din ang trabaho…sometimes you don’t feel like going back to their flat after your holiday….I’m lucky finding and having a kind and generous employer…
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Yes that’s truly true because most of the Filipino maid know how to look back how been good is the employer and we know how to appreciate that in return with a good service.
Agree
Yes ! Relationship of employer and domistec helper is more important,,
Common sense is needed…
I’m proud my employer are good to me,,
Honesty is the best polecy….
Thank’s god ���
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Yes thats true
Yes ..that’s the right spirit ..it encourage harmonious relationship between us.
True!
It’s true, and in being generous we owe them a grateful heart and in return do our best in our job..
If you treat will your helper, she/he will return you the loyalty and kindness as well. Like what my employers and the whole family does to me. They‘re all kind and generous to me, so these motivates me to work harder and honest to everything when it comes to them.
yah".definitely right..
It is true of course,my employer treat me like a family,in return I do all my best to satisfy them with my performance.
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Correct ,but only few employer like that