有些丈夫會視妻子端茶倒水為當然。相片:網易

2月7日大年初三,家住江蘇省泰州的男子江某一家三口去老丈人家拜年。這本來是一件團圓、開心的事情,卻以江某一拳打破老丈人的鼻子告終……到底發生了什麽呢?

說起來難以置信,起因只是江某認為在岳父家吃午飯時,妻子沒有及時端茶倒水,沒有做好「服務工作」。為此江某當場就指責了妻子,飯桌上的眾人勸說了江某,也就罷了。沒想到,當晚一家三口回家的途中,江某又把這件事提起來,一邊開車一邊數落妻子的不是,喋喋不休,這麽一點事情竟然讓他一直批評了一個多小時。

回到家後,越想越委屈的妻子回想起,這幾年自己一直忍受著丈夫這種高高在上的態度,簡直是一種「軟暴力」!心裏十分難過的她關起房門打電話給父親傾訴,而酒過三巡的老丈人聽後立即火冒三丈,也不含糊,帶著一大幫娘家人趕到江某家中來「理論」。

江某面對找上門來的老丈人,不但沒有認錯,反而動手,把岳父鼻子打破。妻子報警後,民警趕到江某家。

江某妻子說,丈夫平時不抽煙,不喝酒,無不良嗜好,這些生活習慣方面夫妻從沒有矛盾。但是,今年33 歲的江某總是自我感覺良好,他畢業於一所名牌大學,在張家港一家德資企業工作,年薪高達40多萬元人民幣(約5.8萬美元)。於是,江某認為自己學歷高,收入多,而妻子只是全職太太,生活中只要有一點不如意的地方,就會對妻子發脾氣。

在民警的勸誡下,江某跟岳父賠禮道歉,最終得到了家人的諒解。

江某收入高,能夠給家人提供好的生活條件,本來是件好事。但如果因此就認為自己「有功」,不尊重妻子,這絕非夫妻相處之道,妻子可不是免費的保姆。

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