The follow-up to the promising, first summit between North Korean and US leaders in Singapore on June 12 has been disappointing, if not disastrous.
First, there was Pyongyang’s vitriolic reaction to the July 6-7 visit by US Secretary of State Mike Pompeo. Then, on Thursday, a planned meeting about Pyongyang returning the remains of missing American servicemen from the Korean War did not happen.
In what was clearly a calculated move, the North Korean representatives simply did not show up on July 12 at Panmunjom for talks with US officials. A post by Yonhap News agency – since deleted – stated that the North wants to upgrade the talks to the general level and move them to July 15.
Even so, there are two pieces of good news. First, the North seems interested in continuing the discussions. Second, whenever the North is talking, the chances of severe provocations are lessened.
However, speaking more broadly, the unfortunate news is that the American approach to dealing with North Korea is fundamentally flawed and probably doomed. That approach has been a failure to see the world as Pyongyang does.
Pyongyang’s perceptions are the foundation of its thinking. The US needs to be fully aware of what these perceptions are.
The fundamental flaw
If we deal with North Korea thinking that they see us as we see ourselves – or that they see themselves as we see them – it is not only hubristic, it is dangerous.
An analogy might be useful. Consider the case of Israel, surrounded by state and non-state actors that are openly hostile. Tel Aviv’s only constant ally – despite occasional waverings – has been Washington. Israel fears for its very existence and has taken appropriate measures to prevent its annihilation, including the open secret that Tel Aviv has nuclear weapons.
Now switch Beijing for Washington and Pyongyang for Tel Aviv. Once the shock of the comparison wears off, the idea becomes clear. Instead of Syria, Iran and a host of non-state actors, North Korea is faced by enemies Japan, South Korea – until very recently – and the United States. This is the perspective in Pyongyang.
The United States is either incapable or unwilling to appreciate North Korea’s point of view, and that prevents Washington from fathoming what Pyongyang is up to and why. For nearly three decades, the US has failed in its negotiations with the North because of this.
Americans know the history of North Korea cheating on and eventually abrogating every agreement it has ever signed, yet continually hope “this time it will be different.” No, it won’t. Because Washington has not changed its approach.
A discomfiting choice
It was Kim Jong-un who originally invited the US to discussions on denuclearizing. But it seems likely that Kim proposed the subject of denuclearization – knowing that it is Washington’s major interest regarding Pyongyang – as a bait to get the Americans to the table. If things went well concerning the priorities Pyongyang wanted to discuss, then possibly the two sides could get to denuclearization.
However, Washington and Pyongyang have huge gaps to bridge over what topics are more important and the meanings of key terms.
The North Korean reaction to Pompeo’s last trip to Pyongyang distinctly demonstrates the difference between what the North and the US see as most important. What the North had been expecting to discuss were better relations between the two countries and a “lasting and stable peace” on the peninsula – the first two items in the Singapore Declaration.
It was Pompeo who jumped to the third item – denuclearization as defined by the US .
Since Pyongyang views the US and its military forces as an existential threat, it is unrealistic to expect the North to unilaterally disarm before security agreements are agreed. Only once the North’s’ viewpoint is understood can effective negotiations begin. Like it or not, this is reality.
The road not taken
If, regardless of risks, Washington chooses to continue discussions, its approach must reflect an understanding of the North’s perspective.
Talk of decapitation squads and other military threats likely interfere with Kim’s sleep when tensions are high. For that, and for other reasons, he would like a formal end to the Korean War and a peace treaty to replace the 1953 armistice between the two sides: Beijing-Pyongyang on the one hand, and Seoul-Washington on the other.
All past diplomatic efforts have failed because, in addition to the deceptions and dishonesties on the part of the North, the West has not taken into account the huge incentive for Pyongyang to not denuclearize – its “treasured sword” of nuclear weapons is seen as its guarantor of regime survival.
Thus, a change of course is required.
Perhaps, since South Korean President Moon Jae-in seems willing to risk it, then Team Trump could restart the troubled negotiation process with the items that are clearly of the greatest importance to Kim and his elite inner circle. South Korea has embarked upon the path to better relations with the North and so must Washington if negotiations are ever to be successful.
The next step would be that elusive peace treaty – which is, admittedly, fraught with risk.
In addition to the reasons articulated by many experts as to why the US should not to negotiate a treaty with North Korea, there is no guarantee that such an approach would ever yield an agreement for Pyongyang to denuclearize.
But without a treaty, there also is no way forward – another stalemate.
One thing is clear. The present approach has not worked in the past and will not work in the future. Washington needs to travel the road not taken.

Meesta Cross Oh you know deep down Trump would make a fantastic goofy vilian in one of those disney cartoons 😉
When the likes of Trump actually have 40%+ approval rating in the highest office in the land you know you’ve got quiet a situation on your hands back home. Yet these Americans still stretch themselves on NK, when in fact if left alone China, Russia NK and SK definetly will work it out among themselves without US at all..
Stop invading Korea, fool. You have done enough damage to the Koreans by massacring millions of Koreans, destroying billions of dollars’ worth of infrastructures in Korea, occupying the south part of Korea for close to 70 years, and inducing the UNSC to impose illegal and criminal sanctions of North Korea because the North Koreans dare to develop and produce weapons to defend themselves and their country. You are an invader, a murderer and a rapist.
"You can save some of your brain cells to look back home and do some real work: figure out someway to get REAL STATESMEN into offices so you can load up that giant babdy of a man into a clown car filled with candies and cart him off to disney land, where he belongs and for sure will enjoy" Really got me laughing. I agree with you, a sane way to handle this very delicate issue.
oh you fools. you want him to do it the way clinton and hussein obama, and bushy did. the chinese put that family in charge of that piece of dirt and they made it one big prison. remember why we were there in the first place? WWII maybe. Then Mao the great rapist with his harem of 10 year old girls decided he wanted to take over what the nipping wanted to take over. Gee, hmm…
If USA wants to settle the issue in Korea, it must put an end to its invasion of Korea by removing all its soldiers and its military equipment out of Korea. Short of this, DPRK will never give up its nuclear arsenal and its ICBMs and a heavy sword of Damocles will keep hanging over the heads of tens of millions Americans who stand at risk of being vaporized.
THE SINGAPORE SUMMIT WAS TO QUIET DOWN THE N KOREAN THREAT SO AS TO MAKE TRUMP/U.S. LOOK GOOD AT THE NATO SUMMIT AND THEN HELSINKI SUMMIT.POMPEO WENT BACK AND PURPOSELY SET THE STAGE BACK TO WAR. THE US. IS NOT A DEMOCRACY IT IS A WARMOCRACY. THEY VOTE IN THE WORST POSSIBLE CANDIDATE IN HOPES HE WILL TAKE THE U.S INOT YET ANOTHER WAR.
Any treaty is useless if USA does not keep it as signed and can withdraw whenever she likes.
oh whats with the look of Mr. Pompeo lately, none of the pictures recently shows him with a happy face. I WONDER what could be the cause…… )))))))
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psss, there’s an easier way
Just get your military out of South Korea. If South Korean conservatives squeal let them. North is not going to suddenly invade or drop a nuke and Russia China + more clear headed South Koreans will take care the rest.
You can save some of your brain cells to look back home and do some real work: figure out someway to get REAL STATESMEN into offices so you can load up that giant babdy of a man into a clown car filled with candies and cart him off to disney land, where he belongs and for sure will enjoy.